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What Does it REALLY Cost?

"Whenever money is added to any decision, it gets more complex.."

-Dan Ariely

It's hot out. I wipe off my forehead with my shirt. I have a lot of grass left to mow. I'm only nine years old, but my grandpa pays me five dollars, ten if he's feeling generous, to mow his lawn. This is fun for me because I don't have many other ways to get money.


As soon as I'm done mowing, I walk up to him with my palms up like I'm entitled. As soon as I get the money, I run over to the local convenience store to get my hands on some sugar. With five dollars, I have to weigh my options carefully. I can get 9 candy bars, or four bottles of pop (or soda, or soda-pop, or coke, or whatever), or a lot of different variations of dime, nickel, and penny candy. Of course, I can always mix and match. Getting two candy bars means I can get one less pop or ten fewer packs of candy cigarettes. I have to monitor my trade-offs.


It seems as a kid I intuitively understood opportunity cost and trade-offs, although I would never have been able to articulate that. It seems easier when we are young, and life is simpler. When we grow up, opportunity costs and trade-offs still exist, but we often forget that and live our lives without fully appreciating the real cost or value of our purchases.



Money Is a Tool


People have the tendency to view the accumulation of money as their ultimate goal. This doesn't necessarily have to be workaholics. Some people will save and save and save because they think having big balances gives them status, security, or freedom. But money alone is worthless. It literally has no value by itself. It's only when we use it as a tool, when we exchange it for something we actually want and value, that we derive any value from it.


Opportunity Cost


If you've ever taken an economics class, you've heard of something called opportunity cost. If you haven't taken an economics class, unfortunately, you probably haven't heard of opportunity cost. Opportunity cost simply means that the cost of something goes beyond dollars. Opportunity cost refers to what you have to give up to buy something or earn something. When I was a kid buying a pop, I knew I couldn't also use that money to get two candy bars. It can get more difficult when you start thinking about the opportunity cost of income - for example the opportunity cost of a flexible job whose mission you agree with and doesn't require travel is the salary you could be making at a far more demanding job (meaning, if the crappy job pays $100k, but the fun job pays $75k, then the opportunity cost of the good job is $25k). Fortunately, I'll just be talking about the first kind of opportunity cost in this post.


The stuff we spend our money on, both the things and the experiences, have a couple of levels of cost to consider.


Level 1: The first level is easy. This is what everyone thinks about when we think about money. It's the sticker price. It's on the price tag. If we want something, we have to give up some dollars (or some other currency).


Level 2: The second level is more difficult for many of us to understand. We know that we have to give up some dollars to get something, but we rarely consider what else we could have used those dollars for if we chose not to complete our purchase.

When I was a kid deciding what kind of sugar to buy, the first level is that a Mountain Dew costs $1. The second level is to recognize that a Mountain Dew costs two Crunch bars.


Let's use a grown-up example. Assume you're thinking about buying a new car. You do your research, and you find a car that will cost $25k. Thinking about the second level of what this costs can help you better decide whether or not you want to make the purchase.


How might that look? One example is that a new car costs you a trip to Spain next year. A new car might cost the same as having a nice dinner out twice per month for a few years. A new car could cost five years of student loan payments and interest, or it could cost two years of work.


Let's put visuals to these options:

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If we can get ourselves to think about our financial decisions in terms of trade-offs, we would begin to make more informed decisions about our financial futures. I'll note here that thinking of purchases in terms of trade-offs has nothing to do with our ability to afford something.


"I Can't Afford It"


Do you find yourself saying you "can't afford it"? I urge you to stop using this word altogether. In most cases, it's simply not true. You can afford it. Even if you don't think you can afford it, you can always sell a car or downsize your home to afford it.


Imagine your child asks you to buy something while you're at the store and you tell her you can't afford it. There is a hidden message you are telling your child, and she might think you're poor. That may or may not be the case, but either way, it's not the way to teach any money lessons.


The question should not be about whether or not you can afford it. The question should be whether or not your family values it.


Trade-Offs


Everything you buy has an opportunity cost. You can think of it as trade-offs. A dollar spent on one thing is not available to buy anything else. That's important if your values support those "other" things and you don't particularly value the thing you're spending your money on.


Values


Take some time to think about purchases in terms of what else that money could buy. If you are considering moving into a bigger house, think past the extra cost of the new house (and certainly think bigger than monthly payments). A bigger house costs the same as your current house, plus annual vacations, three semesters of college for your kid and having to work two years longer.



Nothing suggests either side of the equation is wrong, or that there's a different equation with different trade-offs. Just make sure you are clear about why you want to make your purchases, and you'll have more confidence in your long term financial decisions.


You only have one life - live intentionally.



Read More:

Values as a Solid Foundation

Live Intentionally

Align Your Money and Your Values

Buy Experiences, Not Stuff

We Can't Afford It



References:

Dan Ariely: Predictably Irrational

Dan Ariely, Jeff Kreisler: Dollars and Sense

Carl Richards: The Behavior Gap

Carl Richards: The One-Page Financial Plan


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