"Doing well with money has little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave. And behavior is hard to teach."
I'm sitting at my desk in math class. I'm in middle school, and I'm pretty bored. At the end of class, the teacher asks if I could speak to him for a minute. I am being chosen to take advanced math classes. I've always been good at math, and now it seems my teacher is noticing. I start taking the advanced classes, but it's still not what I would call challenging; it's actually fun. This math stuff just really makes sense to me.
Ten years later, I'm working as a bank teller part-time as I go to college. I'm taking a lot of finance and economics courses. Between my work at the bank and my courses, I'm learning a lot about personal finance. Most of my presentations in front of these classes were about personal finance. It seems like personal finance is just an application of math. I quietly wonder to myself how people can do dumb things with their money. They must know better, I imagine to myself.
Two years later, I have to cut back my hours at the bank because the upper-level classes are pretty intense. I have to supplement my income with credit cards. It's okay, I think to myself, because I will have graduated and moved to Minneapolis in just a few months. I'm going to get a high-paying job, and all my problems will be solved.
Shortly after moving to Minneapolis, I work as a desk jockey helping people peddle subprime mortgages to people who can't afford them. I hate this job. I hate with the company's doing, and I hate my role as a cog in this machine that I don't like. As a result, this job only lasted a few months. Now I find myself unemployed in an expensive city.
By the time I found the job that would eventually launch my career, I have racked up over $25,000 of credit card debt across 15 credit cards. My minimum payments are enough to pay rent at a nice apartment. My interest payments over a year are over $5,000.
I don't quite understand it. Personal finance it's supposed to be about math, and I'm good at math. How do I get into the situation?
This is when I learn that money is not about information, logic, and math; money is about emotions, behavior, and psychology.
Personal Finance Basics Are Simple
It's easy to believe that personal finance and investing are nothing more than a math problem. We think that because the basics are pretty simple. The basics include spending less than you make, saving for the future, and not making any big mistakes.
Because of this seeming simplicity, we believe if we just had more information, a better equation, or more data, we would make better financial decisions. Then we are hard on ourselves when we don't achieve what we set out to do. We might even doubt our intelligence because we couldn't figure out the math problem.
Just because something is simple does not mean it's easy.
Simple Is Not the Same as Easy
There is a difference between something being simple and something being easy. Some things can be both simple and easy, like mowing your grass. Some things are neither simple nor easy, like rocket science, for example.
Simplicity is about concepts and rules. The opposite of simplicity is complexity. Easy is about a low level of difficulty. The opposite of easy is hard, or difficult.
Personal finance and investing fall into the camp of simple because the concepts are pretty straightforward.
Money does not fall into the camp of easy, however, because money is emotional.